Qasida for When I Became a Woman
Huma Sheikh

Poetry; Arabian Ode

9781037113741
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Finishing Line Press

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Sheikh uses the ancient Arabic poetic form to navigate the haunting trauma of her father's murder in war-torn Kashmir, transforming personal loss into a powerful testament of resilience and beauty amidst violence.
In her debut collection, “Qasida for When I Became a Woman,” Huma Sheikh delivers a breathtaking synthesis of personal grief and political history. By reclaiming an ancient poetic tradition, Sheikh transforms the silence of a cold case into a resounding anthem of survival.
Set against the volatile backdrop of war-torn Kashmir and parts of America, this collection, a memoir in verse, is an exploration of how personal identity is forged in the fires of trauma. Sheikh utilizes the Qasida, an ancient Arabic poetic form traditionally characterized by praise and mourning, to navigate the haunting mystery of her father’s murder.
The emotional gravity of the book centers on Sheikh’s father. After being taken by police, reported dead and too quickly cremated, this disappearance creates a “profound void” that the poet must fill with words. The narrative introduces a cast defined by endurance: the poet herself, grappling with a violent inheritance, and her mother, a pillar of resilience who nurtures her daughter through the shadows of the conflict-ridden region.
As the collection progresses, Sheikh moves deeper into the wreckage of her father’s legacy. The middle of the book serves as a bridge between the past and the present, where the poet’s identity is sculpted by family members and the ongoing violence of her homeland.
Sheikh’s juxtaposition of the macabre and the sublime is striking. She weaves the vivid imagery of death and displacement against moments of beauty and praise for a world that persists despite destruction.
Her writing evolves from a cry of mourning into a meditation. By giving voice to the “silenced and forgotten,” she proves that art is not merely a reflection of pain, but a tool for transforming it.
Sheikh takes the traditionally male-dominated Arabian Ode and bends it to her will, telling her “heartbreaking story with tenderness and ferocious honesty.” The blurring lines between a family's private loss and the public tragedy of Kashmir. The daily labor of remembering those the world wishes to forget.
“Qasida for When I Became a Woman” is a moving, charged work. Huma Sheikh has taken the fragments of a shattered life and reconstructed them into a vessel of grace. It is a haunting collection that reminds us that even when bodies are lost to history, their stories can be saved through the power of the written word.





